You’re not here to just survive the day. You’re here to feel alive, deeply supported, and fully yourself again.
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You’re not here to just survive the day.
You’re here to feel alive, deeply supported, and fully yourself again.
Limited Beta Offer
Get $1,000 Off for This Round Only
The full program is $1,997—but during this beta release, you can join for $997 and experience this journey LIVE with me.
Once this round closes, this offer disappears.
An 8-week nervous-system-led reset for the mum who’s done “holding it all together” and is ready to finally feel like herself again.
Go from reactive and overwhelmed to
living with clarity, presence, and a deep connection to yourself.
Some days, even reaching for joy feels like too much.
You get through the days. You tick the boxes.
But underneath the routines and the giving…
you feel numb. Disconnected.
And if you’re honest, like you’ve lost yourself completely.
You’ve read the books. Tried the tools.
But the snapping, the shutdowns, the guilt?
They still sneak in when life gets hard.
You keep waiting to feel better, but nothing sticks.
You don’t need another strategy.
You need a body that feels safe again.
A nervous system that isn’t on edge, waiting for the next meltdown (yours or theirs).
And a way back to the woman you were before survival took over.
This isn’t about fixing you.
It’s about finding you again.
You can keep holding it all together.
But at what cost?
You feel it:
The disconnection. The resentment. The flatness that dulls even the most beautiful parts of your life.
You love your kids but you barely recognise yourself anymore.
And the scariest part? You’re so good at coping that no one sees how close you are to burning out again.
Beneath it all, there’s a quiet grief:
Grief for the woman you used to be.
Grief for the version of motherhood you thought would feel better.
Grief for the joy you haven’t felt in a long time.
This isn’t just exhaustion.
It’s nervous system depletion.
And when your body is this drained, no podcast, planner, or pep talk can fix it.
You need a body that feels safe.
Safe to say “yes” or “no”.
Safe to feel.
Safe to experience the unpredictable and messy parts of life.
That’s when things start to shift.
That’s when you stop surviving and start coming home to yourself.
Why This Is Different
Becoming Her doesn’t just help you cope. It brings you back to life.
You’ve tried managing the symptoms; the overwhelm, the resentment, the disconnection.
But underneath all of that?
There’s a deeper ache:
- To feel like you again.
- To move through your day without guilt running the show.
- To speak your needs and actually believe you deserve to have them met.
- To experience joy that doesn’t feel fleeting, or out of reach.
Most programs teach you how to function better.
Becoming Her helps you feel better, because it meets you at the level where change actually happens:
your nervous system and your soul.
Here’s what makes this different:
- We retrain your nervous system so the burn out, snapping, and shutdowns no longer run your life.
- We reconnect you with the woman underneath the coping.
Not just the mum. Not just the partner. But the whole, deeply-feeling, soul-led woman who still lives inside you. - We don’t force change.
We create the safety your body needs to allow it.
This isn’t mindset work.
This isn’t a parenting framework.
This is whole-self reclamation.
The kind that starts in your body which changes everything.
The Process That Brings Your Spark Back
You’ve done the hard part, surviving.
Now it’s time to be guided through a softer, smarter way to heal and love your life.
In Becoming Her, we use a nervous system-led process designed to move you out of survival and into a grounded, soul-aligned life that you really love.
Step 1 — Uncover What’s Really Running the Show
You can’t change what you can’t see.
In this first step, we gently explore the real reasons you feel stuck, reactive, or exhausted—without shame.
You’ll uncover:
Your personal blueprint—the nervous system patterns, beliefs, and inherited roles keeping you in survival
The “winning formulas” you created as a child to feel safe and loved (and how they’re keeping you small)
What’s driving your overwhelm, disconnection, and reactivity—so you can finally take your power back
This step gives you the clarity you’ve been craving—and the truth that sets the stage for real change.
Step 2 — Rewire the Patterns + Reclaim Your Power
Now that you can see what’s running the show, it’s time to shift it.
This is where we begin building a new baseline—where you start feeling safe with the life you actually want.
You’ll learn how to:
Rewire your nervous system so joy, rest, boundaries, and ease feel safe (not threatening)
Interrupt spirals before they start—and soften instead of snapping
Reconnect with your soul’s voice—the part of you that knows what’s next, even when your mind is scared
This is where the fog lifts and you begin living from calm, clarity, and deep self-trust.
Step 3 — Anchor a New Identity + Create the Life You Want
You’ll stop shape-shifting for everyone else, and finally build a life you feel joyful in.
You’ll walk away with:
A clear, soul-aligned vision of who you are and what you value
New rhythms, rituals, and boundaries that support your nervous system and your expansion
The ability to trust yourself, choose yourself, and live from you—not fear, guilt, or survival
This is the moment you stop surviving and start becoming her.
What Life Feels Like on the Other Side
You start your day with clarity.
Your feet hit the floor and you feel grounded, centred, ready.
There’s a quiet confidence running through your body,
like life finally fits.
Your home feels like an extension of you;
warm, alive, connected.
You look around and actually feel joy.
Not the forced kind. The real kind.
You speak with conviction.
You make decisions with ease.
You honour your needs and it feels natural.
There’s no second-guessing, just deep, rooted self-trust.
You find yourself smiling more.
Laughing more.
Savouring the little things.
Noticing the way the light spills through the window.
The way your child’s laugh vibrates in your chest.
You’re in it. Not watching life from the outside anymore.
You feel at home in your body.
You feel at peace in your mind.
You feel like you, which is
the woman you know is there somewhere.
This is what it feels like to live from your true nature.
This is what becomes possible when your nervous system softens to receive the life your soul was always calling you toward.
Introducing Becoming Her
An 8-week online transformation for mums who are ready to stop going through the motions and start feeling grounded, alive, and deeply connected again.
Becoming Her is a nervous-system-led experience that guides you back to the woman you were always meant to be,
before the burnout. Before the self-doubt. Before you lost sight of your own light.
Inside, you’ll:
- Rewire the patterns that keep pulling you into overwhelm and self-abandonment: so your body feels safe with ease, rest, and joy.
- Regulate your emotions in real time: not in a journal after the storm has passed, but in the exact moment you need it most.
- Reconnect with your true self: the you that’s powerful, intuitive, creative, grounded, and so ready to lead your life with purpose.
You don’t need more hacks, tips, or surface-level tools.
You need a complete reorientation of your inner world.
You need a body that isn’t at war with your desires.
You need a path that honours your biology, your soul, and your actual lived experience as a mother.
That’s what you’ll receive inside Becoming Her.
What You Receive Inside Becoming Her
A complete, guided journey to help your nervous system feel safe, your soul feel seen, and your daily life feel fulfilling again.
Inside this self-paced experience, you’ll be supported to:
Stop the frantic thoughts when things don’t go to plan and start handling hard moments without shutting down or snapping.
Let go of guilt so you can rest, take space, and care for yourself without justifying it to anyone.
Break free from survival mode and feel steady, grounded, and in control again, even on messy days.
Reconnect with who you are outside of motherhood—so you feel more like you again, not just “mum”.
Say "no" without over-explaining, set boundaries that stick, and stop abandoning yourself to keep the peace.
Shift the habits you’ve been stuck in for years; the ones that no mindset trick, routine, or podcast has ever actually changed.
Create simple, sustainable daily practices that work with your nervous system not against it.
You’ll Also Receive
8-Weeks of Guided Nervous System Expansion
A step-by-step process to shift how you think, feel, and respond—so you’re no longer stuck in survival, shutdown, or emotional overwhelm.
Go-at-Your-Own-Pace Format
No calls, no pressure. This version is designed to work around your capacity. Log in when it works for you. Pause when you need. Come back when you're ready.
Private Community Space
A supportive, off-social space to share the journey with other women who get it—because healing is easier when you’re not doing it alone.
Audio Lessons + Workbooks
Short, body-based tools and real-life lessons you can absorb on the go—created for the way mums actually live.
Your Invitation
Your soul already knows.
Your body is just catching up.
An 8-week journey back to the woman you were always meant to be; calm, grounded, and alive.
It’s where nervous system healing meets soul remembering, so you can shed survival mode and finally feel fulfilled in your own life.
Special Beta Round Price
Save $1,000
Beta Round: only $997
or 3 monthly payments of $355
Standard Price: $,1997
This offer is only available during the beta round.
Once enrolment closes, the $1,000 discount will be removed.
And yes, it’s completely risk-free. Full refund if it doesn’t work for you.
Client Results
“Before the program, I was beyond exhausted—flat, burnt out, and completely disconnected from myself.
Getting out of bed felt impossible. I didn’t want to deal with my kids, show up to work, or do anything. I was sick all the time and constantly stuck on the hamster wheel of pushing through. Since doing this, I’ve shifted everything. I left the job that was draining me, reconnected with who I actually am, and brought more calm into my home. My kids feel it too—there’s more peace, more play, more permission to slow down. I feel it. I finally have the energy to create again. It changed how I live.”
“Before this, I wasn’t even on my own list. I gave everything to everyone else—strangers included—and left nothing for myself.
I joined because I wanted to stop ignoring my needs… and I did. I’m now pain-free after years of chronic back issues, because I finally understand how to listen to my body and give myself extra love before things spiral. This work changed my day-to-day life—it’s not just mindset, it’s learning how to meet your own needs through your body. I feel more at peace, more empowered, and more in tune with what actually matters.”
Getting out of bed felt impossible. I didn’t want to deal with my kids, show up to work, or do anything. I was sick all the time and constantly stuck on the hamster wheel of pushing through. Since doing this, I’ve shifted everything. I left the job that was draining me, reconnected with who I actually am, and brought more calm into my home. My kids feel it too—there’s more peace, more play, more permission to slow down. I feel it. I finally have the energy to create again. It changed how I live.”
I joined because I wanted to stop ignoring my needs… and I did. I’m now pain-free after years of chronic back issues, because I finally understand how to listen to my body and give myself extra love before things spiral. This work changed my day-to-day life—it’s not just mindset, it’s learning how to meet your own needs through your body. I feel more at peace, more empowered, and more in tune with what actually matters.”
Your Bonus Gifts
The Happy Home Program (Valued at $297)
Your space for ongoing support, guidance, and connection. Jess goes live every fortnight to answer your questions, offer insights, and help you integrate the work. You’ll also receive bonus content, exclusive trainings, and wisdom from other women walking this same path.
Lifetime Access to the Inner Circle Group
Your space for ongoing support, guidance, and connection. Jess goes live every fortnight to answer your questions, offer insights, and help you integrate the work. You’ll also receive bonus content, exclusive trainings, and wisdom from other women walking this same path.
Here’s What You Get When You Join Becoming Her
A complete, guided 5-month digital journey
Self-paced access to transformational practices + teachings
Lifetime access to all content and future updates
BONUS: The Happy Home Program (Valued at $297)
BONUS: Lifetime access to the Inner Circle Facebook group
Tools and support that work with your real life—not against it
About Jess
Hi, I’m Jess Arachchi
And I know what it’s like to look around at a life you love… and still feel lost inside it.
After the birth of my daughter, I spiraled. I was in pain. Disconnected. Drowning in shame and guilt for even thinking, “What have I done?”
That moment became the beginning of everything now inside Becoming Her.
Not because I forced my way out of survival mode.
But because I was finally supported through it—through nervous system healing, through reconnecting with the parts of me I’d abandoned, and through community that held me without judgment.
Now, I bring over 12 years of experience as a therapist, nervous system mentor, and family dynamics specialist to help other mothers come home to themselves.
This work is personal. It’s powerful. And it’s possible for you too.
I don’t believe you need to do more to feel better—I believe you just need the right support to remember who you already are.
More Women Who Are Living This Transformation
“Before this, I felt guilty for chasing my dreams. I thought putting my wellbeing first meant I was failing as a mum.
But this experience helped me see that honouring who I am doesn’t take away from my parenting—it makes me better at it. I’ve let go of the pressure to do it all. I feel more grounded, more at peace, and more confident saying yes to what lights me up. I now know: I’m allowed to be both—a devoted mum and a fulfilled woman.”
“I realised that it’s ok to give back to myself—and it’s for the benefit of the whole family.
I’m now booking things in instead of just dreaming about it.”
The Becoming Her Guarantee
So You Don’t Have to Second Guess
I know making a decision like this can bring up hesitation, especially if you’ve tried other things before and nothing seemed to stick.
That’s why I offer a 30-day no-questions-asked guarantee.
If you show up, do the work, and don’t feel like you’re experiencing the change you came for—I’ll give you your money back.
No guilt. No hassle. No hard feelings.
FAQs
How long does the program go for?
The core content runs over 8 weeks, but you’ll have lifetime access so you can move at your own pace. Each module includes bite-sized videos (around 7–9 minutes each) so you can fit this into your day—no matter how full it is.
What if I don’t finish it straight away?
That’s completely okay. You get lifetime access to everything—come back whenever you need to revisit a lesson, reset your nervous system, or go deeper.
Do I need to show up to anything live?
Nope—this version of Becoming Her is fully digital and self-paced. You’ll be supported through video guidance, downloadable resources, and the private Facebook group where Jess goes live fortnightly for deeper support.
Is this right for me if I’ve already tried therapy/podcasts/courses before?
Yes. This is different. Becoming Her isn’t just about new information—it’s about nervous system integration. It’s how you create lasting, embodied change, not just mindset shifts.
I’m so busy and often overwhelmed. What if I don’t have time?
This program was designed for women like you. The content is intentionally short and digestible (most videos are under 10 minutes), and you get to move at your own pace. There’s no rush. Just real support when you’re ready.
What if it doesn’t work for me?
I believe in this work so much that I offer a 30-day money-back guarantee. If it doesn’t create the change you’re seeking, I’ll give you a full refund—no questions asked.
The only round where you will have direct access to me
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This offer will not be repeated, once this round is full, the $1,000 off disappears and will return to $1,997.
